i am not sure where this constant need to be held came from.
we intentionally didn't hold her all of the time for fear of this very reason, well.... the day has come. out of the blue. sometimes you cannot even sit her down for one tiny second and she straight flips out. being the new mom that i am, i have no idea what the heck her deal is. obviously i don't let her scream for hours on end, but i physically cannot hold her all night long.
gimme some pointers here ladies. have you suddenly had a "wanting to be held all the time" baby? what did you do to break the cycle?
i love to cuddle on her, but dang. it's not very attractive taking a baby to the bathroom with you. her dad doesn't even get to witness that, why should she? yeah, it's that bad sometimes.